Episode 2: When Your Husband Says, "I Don't Want to Move to France"

You’ve thought it through, made the spreadsheets, half-packed the metaphorical bags. You’re all in on the dream of a life abroad. And then your person says, “I don’t want to move to France.”

This episode picks up at a normal weeknight dinner, the kind where Jeff and I were supposed to be talking logistics — visas, timelines, next steps — and instead I heard him say, with a confidence that surprised even me, “I don’t want to go to France.”

This is the episode about what happens when you and your person aren’t actually on the same page — and what it takes to get there anyway.

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