I'm in a New Relationship, But I Can't Stop Thinking About an Ex
I know I'll be happy and loved with my current boyfriend, but I find myself wondering what it would have been like with Him?
Here's The Thing
Advice + Lists + Horniness, Mostly
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I Had a Miscarriage; Three of My Friends Are Pregnant.
I think a couple of them might have noticed that I'm avoiding them. Should I just let them make their own assumptions about why that is? Should I address it directly?
Here's the Thing[s]: Part III
A shopping guide by a dumbass.
Help! I Think I'm Ready To Try Dating?
I am a very late bloomer. I've struggled endlessly with weight and body image issues.
Here's the Things: Part II
Why the fuck did I do this with Roman numerals the first time?? I'm locked in forever.
I'm In Love With My Roommate-- Should I Tell Her?
I thought (foolishly) that living with her might help me let go of the feelings, but they only grew stronger.
Here's the Thing[s] Part I
Stuff I love because I actually love stuff, which is bad and immoral of me.
My Open Relationship Needs New Boundaries
A SWEETIE, WHOM WE LOVE:
My Friend Thinks I'm in Love With Her
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out.
My Guy Friend Keeps Flirting But Doesn't Want a Relationship
Some of The Most Classic Stuff
My Boyfriend is Super Rich But I'm Not
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out.
It's Time to Dunk on Our Friends
Specifically those people who paid money for the AI Art
Holy shit I guess we're back baby back
No one has any idea what's going on!!
Attention Seeking on the Internet
I had this idea to write this like a letter from an anonymous stranger and then to reply, as I do, with advice.
I'm hung up on a guy I went on three dates with.
Since we work on the same campus, I figured staying friendly would be the wise thing to do.
Substack Vacation
Not that anyone is freaking out about this or anything, but my substack is taking a little break in November.
Should I tell my new friends that one of their friends was the other person in my last relationship?
Basically, I either owe him an apology and we hopefully all move on, or if he did know about she and I, then I don't feel like I have much to apologize for at all and it could still be tense.
I helped my girlfriend during an embarrassing moment and I can't stop thinking about it.
Here’s The Thing is an advice column/newsletter where I mostly beg people to either stop dating someone or to ask their crush out.
Should I work for an MLM? Is that immoral?
If I take the job, am I a bad person?
My boyfriend has terrible boundaries with his mom. And we live with her.
At this point, I don’t know what to do. I want to move out and end the relationship but I don’t because we’ve bonded so much and I love him so dearly.